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Naija Lady confessed the good qualities she wants in a man & they are scared: video


Finding your person is no easy task. And sometimes it feels like the dating pool is filled with too many frogs, not nearly enough princes.

Women want to be with someone with who they feel safe at all times. They want to say ‘With you, I feel safe. I don’t have to be defensive. I know that when I’m around you, I’m going to be okay

Most ladies are frustrated with the snail pace with which their male partners approach the subject of marriage.

Ladies want a man who is confident and self-assured, they don’t want a man who is overbearing, has to be the centre of attention, and thinks he’s the most important person in the world. Being confident means being comfortable with who you are and believing in yourself and that you’re worth taking the time to get to know. Women respond to the positive and upbeat energy a confident man is putting out in the world, so long as that confidence doesn’t overextend into egotism.

When a man is honest and trustworthy, he instantly becomes more appealing and desirable to a woman. If he’s dependable, truthful, genuine, and speaks from the heart, he’s a guy who is worth pursuing, as people can take him at his word.

Having integrity means acting virtuously and having a strong moral character. Women desire a man who is honorable, fair, and ethical. In terms of relationships, having integrity can help strengthen the bond a man has with a woman, as his moral principles will guide his behavior and help him to be the best partner that he can be.

Odds are that if the above traits apply to you, you’ve probably already got the maturity part down. It’s important to show a woman that not only are you emotionally mature and able to keep an open line of communication, but also that you’re mentally mature and capable of behaving like a grown-up when it’s time to do so. You can show this by thinking rationally, not overreacting, and solving problems together after careful discussion.

Most men even freak out under the pressure to settle down in marriage, some even break the relationship altogether, if they can’t get rid of the marital pressure.

Every lady must decide what is most important to her, being a glamorous bride or being a glorious wife. Believe me, when I say, it doesn’t take the former to be the latter. Every lady who wants to have her man jump at the opportunity to be married must deliberately simplify the process of getting married for him.

Nigerian men believe that a wife should be a combination of a good cook, a capable washing machine, a very good bedmate and a woman capable of supporting them in hard times but when they meet women who are not endowed with these qualities, they tend to shrink into their shells.

Naija men make the mistake of only going for ladies who are either working class or doing well in their businesses because these days, no one wants a full-time housewife who depends on the husband for everything in the home.

Some like the free sex they get from different girls who are willing to get down anytime they want.

They like to take the easy approach and just have fun without investing money and time in grooming their wives.

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